Practice Makes Perfect: Don’t Skip the First Kiss and Dip!
By J Costello Wedding Officiants
If you’ve seen The Wedding Singer, you might remember the heartfelt chaos and sweet surprises that come with a wedding day. One takeaway you should steal from that classic rom-com? Practice your first kiss—and your celebratory dip—as you walk back down the aisle!
It might feel a little silly, but practicing those iconic post-“I do” moments can make a big difference. Here’s why:
1. It Helps You Feel More Confident
The ceremony ends, your guests are cheering, and everyone turns to watch your first kiss as a married couple. It’s a beautiful moment—but also one that happens fast and is forever captured in photos.
A little practice helps take the edge off. You’ll feel more relaxed, less fumbly, and way more present when the moment actually arrives. Where are your hands going? Is your head turning right or left? You’ve kissed your partner hundreds of times, but these are still things to think about!
2. You’ll Avoid the Awkward Shuffle
We’ve all seen it: a kiss that’s too quick, a dip that almost turns into a backbend disaster, or one partner leading the recessional while the other’s still waving to Grandma.
A quick rehearsal ensures your kiss is photo-ready and your exit down the aisle looks smooth, coordinated, and full of joy—not confusion.
3. Your Photographer Will Thank You
These are the shots your photographer is waiting for: the kiss, the hand raise, the dip, the beaming smiles as you walk back down the aisle. When you know what you’re doing—and when to pause—it gives them the chance to capture those magical split-second moments.
4. It’s a Great Excuse for Extra Kisses
Honestly? Practicing your kiss and dip is also just a fun reason to sneak in a few smooches and laughs before the big day. It’s light, low-stress, and a great way to connect amid the planning chaos.
Pro Tip: Talk to Your Officiant and Photographer
If you’re planning a dip, let your officiant know so they can step aside for a clean photo. And tell your photographer when you’ll pause for the kiss or the dip—those few extra seconds of awareness can make the shot chef’s kiss perfect.
Final Thought
So take a cue from The Wedding Singer—embrace the moment, and practice your kiss and celebratory exit. You’ll look more polished, feel more confident, and hey… any excuse for a few extra kisses is a good one in my book. (And if you haven’t seen The Wedding Singer – get on it! It’s adorable!)
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J Costello Wedding Officiants
Creating joyful, personal ceremonies (and stepping out of the frame for the perfect kiss shot)
